WE ARE TAKING ORDERS FOR CHRISTMAS GIFTS!

CHRISTMAS is just few weeks away, what plans do you have for your friends and family, Special Children, Old People, those on the street and Yourself. 

TEAMDIAMOND SERVICES is all ready to take the stress off your shoulders. Let us Package and organize your Christmas gifts without you lifting a finger. Yea, that right without you lifting a finger. Continue to read more about out offers.

JOIN US EVERY SATURDAY FOR ONE ON ONE FINANCIAL TRAINING

It is said people remain POOR because they Pass Over Opportunities Repeatedly. How many time have you PASSED over Opportunities. Join Us Every

OXIDATIVE STRESS A MAJOR KILLER!

OXIDATIVE STRESS also know as FREE RADICALS are the MAJOR causes for Waist/Back and Joint Pains, Vaginal Discharge, Fibroid, Arthritis, Stroke, Gonorrhea, Staphylococcus, Syphilis, Typhoid and Malaria, Menstruation anomalies, BP and Other ailment in the body.

PICTURES FROM OUR EXCLUSIVE MATURED SINGLES/MARRIED GROOVE

  Saturday 11th February was off the Hook! Our Matured Singles/Married Groove was a great success. Enjoy picture from the event. Breaking News coming SOON!

MATURED SINGLES GROOVE!!!

A lot of young people are struggling with the Question Who is the right person for me?

My question is Are you the right person for him/her?

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PICTURES FROM DANIEL'S WHITE BALL

Our June 2016 Daniel's White Ball (#DWB) was a huge success. We had lot of fun Sharing, Learning and Growing. First of it kind with the Whispers Family Grannies in attendance, over 10 of them. Wow! Wow!! Wow!!! Our very own 74 year old Grandma Olayinka of the Whispers Family wasn't in anyway gonna be left out. Did you MISS OUT?

SAD: STEPHEN KESHI LOSES WIFE!

Stephen Keshi and his late wife, Katherine

According to tori.ng: Strong reports have it that the wife of the former Super Eagles' coach Keshi has passed away in an hospital outside the country after a protracted illness. 

MUTILATING YOUNG GIRLS' BREAST TO PROTECT THEM FROM..

This is serious oh! A brutal tradition akin to female genital mutilation is spreading in Cameroon’s war zone. Girls’ breasts are “flattened” with hot irons and stones to keep men at bay.

SOME HEALTHY FOOD FOR A STUNNING SKIN

TOMATO:

Fresh tomato juice is a healthy way to start your day. The lycopene in tomatoes helps prevent UVA and UVB damage (ultraviolet A (long-wave) and ultraviolet B (shortwave) rays.). 

Lycopene are found in tomatoes and other red fruits and vegetables, such as red carrots, watermelons, and papayas, although not in strawberries, or cherries. Tomato juice also brings back life to dull skin.

CAMPAIGN AGAINST FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION

Osun State deputy Governor, Mrs Grace Laoye-Tomori;  Governor Rauf Aregbesola, his wife, Alhaja Sherifat Aregbesola and others at the workshop.

Worried by the prevalence of Female Genital Mutilation/Cutting, FGMC in Nigeria especially in the Southwest, stakeholders last week at two different workshops in Osogbo and Ilupeju met to discuss the situation. The issue of female circumcision which has been an age long tradition has for sometimes been a serious concern to the government and health practitioners but took a centre stage in the administration of President Goodluck Jonathan.

HEALTHY LIVING - WATERMELON

Possible health benefits of watermelon

Despite popular belief that watermelon is made up of only water and sugar, watermelon is actually considered a nutrient dense food, a food that provides a high amount of vitamins, minerals and antioxidants for a low amount of calories.

HEALTHY LIVING - WATER THERAPY

Today we will be sharing on the importance of Water. Read More after the cut.

WE ARE STEPPING UP FROM 1ST NOVEMBER 2015!

Good News! Is someone clapping already? Ok! I see you doing that! www.theonlylovedoctor.com goes fully into blogging from Sunday, 1st November 2015. Continue to read our activities.

PICTURES FROM OUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE SUMMIT

Finally, our Relationship/Marriage Summit for June took place on Saturday, 20th. it was a huge success despite the showers of rain.

Continue, to see few pictures from the summit!

MY GIRLFRIEND RECEIVES CALLS MORE THAN DANGOTE!

Dear TOLD Readers (The Only Love Doctor's Readers), please be assured that whatever story you read on this blog are True Life Stories. We counsel hundreds of people weekly via One on One counseling, Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, Email etc. so we heard and see these stories. The only thing we change is the person's real name and address. We decided to share exactly the way the guy sent his story. (Please bear with him and read everything).

SEVEN YEARS TOGETHER, FOUR ABORTIONS! YET HE HAS NOT PROPOSED!

My name is Nene, am 34 years old, an accountant in one of the oil industries. Am not in the right frame of mind since I discovered my fiance has a two year old daughter, with someone he claimed is his cousin.

HOW DO I TELL HER AM H.I.V POSITIVE

Hello THE ONLY TRUE BLUNT CRAZY LOVE DOCTOR! I've listened to you keenly for sometime now and i must say you are indeed a rare gem! I'm Chinedu a graduate of philosophy from U.N.N my days in school was always a jamboree,babes,wild parties and the after party with any baby you end up with.
I was what you'll call a PLAYER I was good at the act and enjoying every bit of it.
But after service year,i got a job in one of the new generation banks and it was in another level,bigger girls and more money to throw around...but then time was moving on and my parents were on my neck to come home with the lady i want to settle down with but for me i was still catching my fun...until I met Ifeoma...
Our meeting was very strange,i had intended to call one of my numerous girls and i missed the phone number by a digit and here was this very sweet voice talking with me and i couldn't resist her voice and i wanted to get to know more about her after discovering that she wasn't the one i originally wanted to call,but she'll have none of that and she dropped the call on me,I saw it as a challenge and kept calling but she won't pick up,then i sent her a text using one of my famous lines on her and she responded and the s.m.s continued for a while and then she agreed to see me.
We met and I discovered that she also works for one of the new generation banks as well after several dates we fell hopelessly in love with one another and I was surprised that I lost interest in any other lady,after a year of being together,i decided within me that she was the one i wanted to spend the rest of my life with seeing that she has captured my heart!
On the day of my proposal to Ifeoma,I got the bombshell of my life! After a lovely evening at sheraton,I went on one knee and with the ring in my hands i asked Ifeoma to be not just my wife but the mother of my unborn kids,partner and lover!
She didn't say a word to me she just said lets go!
We left and went to my apartment and there my world crashed right before my eyes by the story she told me.
Ifeoma,looked at me and laughed and said so you too want to now settle down after all your escapades! Well for your information this lady isn't ready for marriage and never will because I'm H.I.V positive no thanks to a rape date that i had,7 men gang raped me and I vowed within me that as many men that comes my way will share in this good news that has been committed into my life! So welcome to the club! For your information my boss and all the male colleagues at my branch are H.I.V positive because they can't think with their head because what is in between their legs is in control at all times.
After all that drama my mouth was still agaped, I could not alter a single word and I thought to myself so my world was finally coming to an end. She just looked at me and walked away.
Where will I start from? Its been Two years now and I tested positive to H.I.V, I've asked God for forgiveness and I know He has forgiven me. But the big comma in my life right now is I met a God fearing Lady who is everything a man would want for a wife and she deeply loves me and I love her too and for the past 6 months we have being together its has been clean, no sex or kisses just hugs. Do I TELL HER ABOUT MY PAST AND MY PRESENT STATUS. How will I tell her all this without losing her, thou I've heard of people with my kind of issue who are happily married with kids. Please I need your sincere advice am suffering in silence for a wayward life I lived. I want to get married and have kids like my brothers.
Please HELP ME!
Thank you Love doctor for this great opportunity to share my heart ache story, God bless you.

Chinedu from Ipaja.


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Please HELP! I WANT TO KILL MY MOTHER!

 Dear friends ,

this is my true life story. i hate my mother and i feel like killing her, yes i hate her so much. Just before you start insulting me hear my story.
It all started when my mum got pregnant at the age of 20, according to what i heard her father was very poor and never had time for the family. When a rich family who have been childless
for ten years heard about her they offered to buy the baby from her and she foolishly agreed. In fact that was the beginning of suffering for me, at age 0-5 everything was OK, in fact they treated me as their own child. But when i clock five(5) my adopted mother became pregnant and every one felt it was as a result of my good luck. She later gave birth to two sons making us two girls and two boys. One would have thought i would be treated nicely but that wasn't the case. In fact that was when i was ignored most and i eventually became a slave in the house. At first i couldn't understand why my own mother would be so wicked to me until she eventually told me at age 15 that she wasn't my mother and that they bought me from my family that as far as she is concern i’m a slave and that she wil continue to treat me as such. On hearing this i ran to the kitchen and stabbed myself on the belly, #crying# my whole world fell down. I was rushed to the hospital and the doctors quickly saved me, when her husband came to the hospital he was heart broken in fact he started crying and for the first time he slapped his wife and ask her why she told me when they already agreed to tell me when i’m 18… This man has always been good to me both as a father and a friend, in fact he was the one that taught me mathematics when i was slow in learning it, i believe this was among the many reasons his wife hated me because i was her husbands favorite. So after i recovered from the hospital, things went back to normal and she started acting nice. But all hell broke loose when two years later my adopted father died in an auto-crash when coming from a business trip, by now i was 17 years and i just finished my secondary school, we were all devastated by the news, its wasn't a good period i must confess. After the burial my adopted mother became really wicked to me, all my hope of going to the university died. Sometimes i was made to stay for two days without eating, money wasn't the problem because my adopted dad left behind a lot of investment! There was this time that her brother came to stay with us and he molested me, i was still a virgin at that time. On that particular day just both of us were at home because my adopted mum travel with her children to the village for a family meeting. He forced his way into me and stole my pride as a woman…

After a year i realized that there was no future for me in that house, so i ran away in search for my biological mother. During this process i became homeless and i had to sleep on uncompleted houses in the bushes. I was defiled on many occasions by robbery gangs who came and met me sleeping in their hide out! On this fateful day, i met a young lady and i begged her to give me money to buy food, at first she ignored me but later told me to follow her. She took me to her house, bath me and cooked for me, after which she told me to relax that this is my new home as from that day. I was so happy and i couldn't believe there were still people with a good heart…

The following day she told me that instead of giving my body free for food ,that it was better i became a professional and make good money from it. That was when she told me that she is a prostitute and that she would love me to join her. I had no choice but to accept her offer… I prostituted for three good years,by this time i was living on my own in a well finished apartment because i was sleeping with politicians and they were paying well. My friend met a guy that changed her life and stopped her from prostituting, he is a wealthy guy and he also got married to her. On their wedding day i met this fair guy so who so funny, we stated dating and i told him about my past and what led to my prostituting. He felt sorry for me and told me that he loves me and that my past is a past tense. After two months her propose to me and i accepted, my friend parents accepted to act as my parents on the wedding day. My guy really showed me the love i deserved, he took me to New York for shopping and he promised to always love me.

When i came back into the country, my gate man told me that there was someone waiting for me who has refuse to leave the compound, so i told him to bring in the person. He came in with a woman, when i ask her who she was, do you know what she said “I’M YOUR BIOLOGICAL MOTHER” at this point i was filled both surprise,anger and hatred. She knelt down and started begging me to forgive her for selling me,that she was young and didn't know what else to do…

Please people tell me SHOULD I FORGIVE THIS WOMAN???

after all I’ve gone through i feel like killing her!

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LADY JANE AND ANDREWS' STORY!

My Name is Jane,Andrew and I have been dating for a year now and our meeting was something that just happened out of the blues,he was trying to catch his dog at the beach,his dog got to where i was and stopped and the moment he saw me,he stopped dead on his tracks and we stared at ourselves for a while and the he said hello and the rest is history... From the beginning i made sure this relationship is defined and we know where we are headed because at 32yrs old,i can't be fooling around any more and i was really relieved when Andrew 36yrs old is seeing things my way and willing to work thing,seriously i was elated and felt this is it at last!  But this feeling is gradually slipping away from me and I need your help because I'm loosing it right now.
The whole drama started when Andrew called and the he sounded on phone was weird,I was seriously concerned about what was wrong but all he told me was to loan him some money that he had to sort out some issues urgently but when he said how much he wanted,i was taken aback he asked for N100k,but I'm very industrious and prudent with my funds so that wasn't a problem and i had fallen over heel in Love with Andrew,so i put to flight every red flag in my head and just sent the money to him.
When we finally saw he couldn't really explain things to me ,he was being evasive,I had to let it go,then some other times it will be just N20k or N15k ...
But the last straw that broke the camel back happened when i went to visit Andrew unannounced  and just i was about pressing the bell i heard two people conversing and it was Andrew and another guy their conversation goes thus: PLEASE I CAN'T DO THIS ANY MORE I'M IN LOVE WITH JANE AND ITS KILLING ME TO KEEP ASKING FOR MONEY FOR US,YES THIS WAS OUR AGREEMENT BUT I CAN'T GO ON WITH IT ANY MORE PLEASE JUST LET IT GO! The other responded: THIS IS JUST NONSENSE I GOT YOU THIS JOB AND I CAN AS WELL END IF YOU CAN'T DELIVER ANY MORE!
I rushed in without knocking and low and behold the other guy is my elder brother!!! Please LOVE DOCTOR HELP ME! I'M GOING CRAZY! WHAT DO I DO?

Please lets help Lady Jane with our comments.

SOWING AND REAPING!

That is still happening till date: When you find more useless ladies around these days, it’s because there are more than enough useless men everywhere. Its interesting to find women that cheat these days, women that tell lies, women that are fraudulent, women that kill, women that steal etc, etc. If Men want wonderful women,well I guess they know what to do or START BECOMING! Men ARISE! Please Do Right!...I have more men complaining about ladies these days,and topping the list of complaints is LIES! And the fact that so many ladies out there can't be trusted...

My response to that is simple, observable, and quantifiable: Women have a high capacity to respond to men than react. When a man likes a football club, sooner than later, his girlfriend or wife begins to support the same club, when a man goes about borrowing money, and starts telling lies when it’s time to pay back, sooner than later after the wife has despised his life style for a while, she too will soon start borrowing money to pay back her husband’s debt which he couldn't pay, causing lots of embarrassments in the neighborhood, and then she will start telling lies to members of her family that she has borrowed money from when it’s time to pay back. When a guy is hardworking and motivating, sooner than later, you will soon start hearing people talk about how his wife has come of age and has stepped up in many areas of her life, and she will always say “It’s because I met a man who made me realize I can be more and everything I want to be in my life”. If you find a man cheating and catching curses, and setbacks etc in life, you will soon have a wife who is latched onto the Social Media looking for ex-boyfriends with the intention of opening up her legs for whosoever desireth to come in and face Death Penalty spiritually (and if you don’t believe me, go and read the book of PROVERBS in the Bible on sleeping with another man’s wife).

Do you know that when God was talking to Adam about not eating the fruit of the Knowledge of good and evil that the woman had not been created then? Check Genesis 2 to confirm.

Do you know that when the serpent tempted Eve in the Garden of Eden that her husband Adam was with her, and had the right instructions given to him by God about the Tree and the whole Garden, yet he couldn't be bothered to protect his wife? Eve failed, but that was because the man Adam had long failed before she did by not taking the word of God seriously.

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