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Good Morning and thanks to the Doctor for this Opportunity lol. Am Adekunle by name am a Vulcanizer and i am into 6 years Relationship going to 7yrs with my Girl now, and i proud to say that she is my first lover and the only one in my life till now.
Her name is Bukola and I
so much Love and Cherish her that I can’t do without her for just 2weeks hope you
understand that if I didn't see her consecutively 2weeks I won't get myself for
the talk on phone can't be like seeing each other, our own parents knew that we
are Lover and her Mum love it and my Mum, but it gotten to a stage that my Mum
have to change to her, you see this my Bukola I can't just imagine the kind of
Girl she is, am 25 and she is 22 lol, because the problem there is that she is
too fond of Man, I don't say flirting with them but love playing with man and
every blessed day man will be calling her like no other woman in the world even if we are together she will pick
their call and be taking to them, to the extent that I can't
tolerate this again this is
(1),
And before we are
like seeing each other and talk greet and go each other way, but lately we
close like sitting together gisting, chatting like that but I have a problem
with her that if we are to gist for 3hours I will be the only one to be talking
which I don't like, and I will be asking to say something too but she will tell
me she has nothing to say, the funniest part is if she get to another guy or
another place she will be the one to sit the person and start gisting with them
that is.
(2),and the most paining
part is this that anytime I feel like touching her I mean to make Love with her,
she's never for once be in the mood is either is Beg beg beg before I will be
able to take advantage of her, even you will know how it will be now for one to
be in mood and the one not to, the process won't go the way it is like the two
should agree to make love now, and am not requesting for it everyday normally
come to our place by weekends sometimes it may be 2 weeks before she come to my
side so if I should ask her for Sex she will be like Oh God, No, I said now.
And I will have to
be saying why are you doing this to me now, I will have to be counseling her
before I make love with her, sometimes she will refuse. And that is the
3. That first one
that she is found of man and man calling her as if Dangote is receiving call
time to time is the one my Mum normally complain about for concerning her and My
Mum use to tell me that she is not clean, but she use to tell me that she is
not a wayward and I believe her lol and am watching her also.
Please I want you to
advice me concerning this o, and I Love her and she know that I love her but this her attitudes am
becoming fed up about it.
What do I want to do
again I use to call her talk to her, counsel her as I know how to make her
realise what she is doing is not okay but all to no avail, she will tell me she
have hear me that she will change but I will see no change in her, because of
this I seize her Sim Card and bought another one but the call still control but
not like before, and I have settle what is between her and my Mum, they are now
friend but this her behaviour or is it attitude am to call it, am fed up and I
want your advice.
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Hmmmmmm d story is a tough one cos misunderstandings are beginning to get settled buh d girlfrnd in question has nt stopped her 'non-lady' behaviour. She's not showing dignity and pride in any sense frm d start so its expected. Most times first love may not really be true love buh d guy's feelings for d girl has gotten to a point dat his nt seeing dat d girl is no longer interested in d long term relationship, more like saying i need a break, more like saying am fed up, buh wateva d situation may be jst as it is now, he shuld ask d lady if she's still interested and he shuld free her nd let her go.tho its hard buh i think it jst best for him to save him frm future marital blows later.
ReplyDeleteImagine yourself at 25 sleeping with a girl of 22 for 7 years. Child abuse if you started when she was 15 years. You better ask God for forgiveness and end such relationship. See you so proud of saying it. Shame on you man.
ReplyDelete@ your age u sure need to rethink......if u are a whispers family as i was made to understand.....u are not supposed to be talking like dis...it is a shame ur parents are even aware of it and supports u and her.....even to d extent of ur mom having issues with her....it means she supports u.............my advice to u as a family is for u to quit dis unholy partnership and work on ur life.....remain blessed
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