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My name is Nene, am 34 years old, an accountant in one of the oil industries. Am not in the right frame of mind since I discovered my fiance has a two year old daughter, with someone he claimed is his cousin.
I met Koko seven years ago on my 27th birthday celebration through my elder sister Amanda! My sister met him when she was posted to Abuja for her youth service. Since then they became good friend. She felt he was a loving guy and he fell in love with me the first day he saw my picture with her, so she thought we should date.
Since then we've had the best of times together, so I thought. The first year we got together I took in for him and he begged me to take it off because he wanted us to wed in church and also it was gonna be a big disgrace to our families.
I didn't want that kind of disgrace too, so I agreed and took it off. Then it Happened again, and again and again and in all this I kept taking it off because I felt it was the right thing.
Seven years on he has not proposed and I just found out he has a 2 year old daughter with his so called cousin who stayed with him few years back. I confronted him and he begged and begged for forgiveness that she was his ex. But had accommodation issues then, so he only helped her and that was when she took in. But refused to take it out.
Am so shattered because I have sacrified so much for him to be treated this way. Please help me, at this point am sucidial. I don't know what to do! I love this guy and don't wanna lose him.
Love is not foolish dear Nene,run for ur life nw b4 its too late,he is out to distroy ur life and dump u.Its only a fool that runs faster on a wrong road, God is still a merciful God and He is ready to welcome u back and give u a new begining.I trust d love Dr,will help rehabilitate u,sucide is nt an option pls!!! Ure blessed.
ReplyDeleteMiss Nene, the handwriting is already written on the wall. I don't have to say much. If you think you can still endure the hardship and agony he caused you. You can continue the relationship, otherwise move on with your life. The right man will soon come your way.
ReplyDeleteNice one..
DeleteNice one..
DeleteMiss Nene, the handwriting is already written on the wall. I don't have to say much. If you think you can still endure the hardship and agony he caused you. You can continue the relationship, otherwise move on with your life. The right man will soon come your way.
ReplyDeleteMiss Nene, the handwriting is already written on the wall. I don't have to say much. If you think you can still endure the hardship and agony he caused you. You can continue the relationship, otherwise move on with your life. The right man will soon come your way.
ReplyDeleteMiss Nene, the handwriting is already written on the wall. I don't have to say much. If you think you can still endure the hardship and agony he caused you. You can continue the relationship, otherwise move on with your life. The right man will soon come your way.
ReplyDeleteMiss Nene, he's just a time waster. I hope he hasn't wasted more than the seven years.
ReplyDeleteMiss Nene, thanks for sharing this with us, please quit the relationship because who knows what will happen in next the abortion?. God will see you through.
ReplyDeleteThink wise and make right descison
ReplyDeleteSeriosly nene your loving someone who doesn't care about you.. If he cares he wouldn't had lied to you.. And besides he has a 2 year old daughter! So it means while you were still dating this guy he had sex with another women.. Nene love is not stupid nethier is love foolish.. I you marry this guy he will continue to cheat on you..
ReplyDeleteEmmanuel Oyewusi Pelumi.
Miss Nene it is obvious and clear that this man just want to have his way with you, meaning that this man is not ready to marry you because the essence of relationship is marriage. Pls seek God intervention.
ReplyDeletePls quit d r/ship n move on with your life . Though such decision is hard to make but after u will find out u can actually do without him. The lord is your strenght n he is merciful to accept you back
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ReplyDeleteFornicate more and commit more abortion with him.When you die and go to hell,he will propose.You are insane.I am sure you are going to church.Child of the devil.Die and go to hell.bastard
It is well seen that you are on a wrong track
ReplyDeleteIt is better you quit... forget about the years spend with him and take U turn.
Thanks (Remi)
@remi u r righty
ReplyDeleteU dnt even need to waste much of ur time,better move on wit ur life and stop thinking of it,#to those who think life is comedy but to those who feel life is tragedy#
ReplyDeleteGoing suicidal now is not the best option. That you erroneously signed into this relationship and have missed it several times doesn't mean you don't deserve God's mercy. Repent of all your past errs, seek proper counsel and start over again getting it right this time. Best wishes Nene!
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