The whole drama started when Andrew called and the he sounded on phone was weird,I was seriously concerned about what was wrong but all he told me was to loan him some money that he had to sort out some issues urgently but when he said how much he wanted,i was taken aback he asked for N100k,but I'm very industrious and prudent with my funds so that wasn't a problem and i had fallen over heel in Love with Andrew,so i put to flight every red flag in my head and just sent the money to him.
When we finally saw he couldn't really explain things to me ,he was being evasive,I had to let it go,then some other times it will be just N20k or N15k ...
But the last straw that broke the camel back happened when i went to visit Andrew unannounced and just i was about pressing the bell i heard two people conversing and it was Andrew and another guy their conversation goes thus: PLEASE I CAN'T DO THIS ANY MORE I'M IN LOVE WITH JANE AND ITS KILLING ME TO KEEP ASKING FOR MONEY FOR US,YES THIS WAS OUR AGREEMENT BUT I CAN'T GO ON WITH IT ANY MORE PLEASE JUST LET IT GO! The other responded: THIS IS JUST NONSENSE I GOT YOU THIS JOB AND I CAN AS WELL END IF YOU CAN'T DELIVER ANY MORE!
I rushed in without knocking and low and behold the other guy is my elder brother!!! Please LOVE DOCTOR HELP ME! I'M GOING CRAZY! WHAT DO I DO?
Please lets help Lady Jane with our comments.
let ha date the guy since she over heard him tell ha broda he his in love with ha n leave ha bro for GOD to judge him
ReplyDelete@Omolola how about the deception that was the foundation of the whole thing?
ReplyDeleteLets 4get abt d deception! D two parties ar now in love! Jane shud 4giv n love Andrew den deal wt her broda!
ReplyDeleteHOPE THERE WAS NO PREMARITAL SEX INVOLVED( I HAVE MY RESERVATIONS).......
ReplyDeletesince d relatnship is define 4rm unset n dey ar inlov dey shud continue n jane shud seet is broda down n ask him d reason for his action
ReplyDeleteYou see the relationship was defined but on separate lanes,she was on the MARRIAGE lane,he on the MONEY lane,now that the cat is out of the bag the next thing to do is set things straight...deception,lies,lack of trust...deal with them..as for your blood brother obviously he is the strong hold within,a family member duping another actually happens and you also need to deal with all that mentioned above...so Jane ask yourself do you think you can work it out with them both, already you know he loves you and he is backing out from the scam,but can you work it out and trust him again?he is a changed person through and through?.Don't run away from this ,confront it head on...But remember for you to go on with him(and your brother)clear the air...then start again..know the real andrews..IT IS WELL
ReplyDeleteForget about him its all planned from the beginning...u can go further with ur lyf.
ReplyDeleteHum, dis is serious. But sincerely if it was to b me o, I won't date the guy again o. God knows hw many ladies he wld hav done dat for.d foundation has bin deceit. And if d foundation be destroy Wat can a righteous do?
ReplyDeleteWat abt Deception,d foundatn?as Daniel Akpata said, So can there not b any Correction,as-in CHANGE CAUSE knowing dat d guy is now readyfor d positive directn. We once make mistake,either-way no one is perfect,we all trying to b. So I suggest she just need to make an adjustment(reduce or stop givin for d tym-being to b sure of him)
ReplyDeleteif it was to be me I ll forgive him and continue with the relationship since he said he his in love with me. If she brock up with him and start another relationship with another guy, what makes her think that the new guy won't be far worst than the previous one. The adage said the devil u know is far better than the angel u don't know. So my advice for u is to forgive him and start over with him, but state ur rules by telling him what u like and don't like.
ReplyDeleteWhen the purpose of a thing is not known abuse or misuse is inevitable. let both of them sit down and talk things out or better still go their seperate ways the earlier the better.
ReplyDeleteFrom the start there was deception. A dog will always return to the master, it was a ploy to make her feel she was so special.
ReplyDeleteShe overheard something not meant for her ears. Not only that he was asking not to continue not telling him he would not be.The man did not confess anything which could have led to the path of forgiveness. He was brought in by the brother to decieve her.
I would say to her, to heal you must forgive both, but leave Andrew behind and dont be so caught up in meeting a deadline for love.
Andre loving her isnt enough.if this guyz could deceive her theres a huge posibility that he could still be with her nd keep deceiving other ladies.is that the kind of man u would love to spend d rest of ur life with??..as for ur brother i think u should report him to your family elders maybe ur parent,uncle.etc.i think they would know how to handle it
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