MY MARRIED EX - BOYFRIEND IS BLACKMAILING ME!

Dear TOLD Readers, How will you manage this blackmail? Stella is has 3 weeks to give in or face it! Remember this is a True Life Stories from our counseling Sessions with hundreds of people weekly, via One on One, Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, Email etc, stories we share here are with their permission. The only thing we change is the person's real name and address.

Hello Team Diamond, am so glad I finally meet this family and I believe help will come for me.

My name is Stella, from Delta state am 28 years old, am a marketer with Sky Bank, at Satellite Town.

Am really confuse now about this situation am going through. I meet Wole when I got admission into the university, we were beautiful together. I was 19 in my first year, he was 22 and in his second year.

We had plans to marry each other no matter the hurdles, guess I was totally wrong. 2 years into our relationship I have done 2 abortions already because he felt we were too young to raise a child and it was going to affect our education at that time. After the third one I told him I wasn’t going to risk my life anymore for him after all as at then he was going for youth service while I was in my finally year, so if I get pregnant again I wouldn’t take it off.

He accepted but insisted we wouldn’t have sex with condom as it wasn’t filling and satisfying. It wasn’t a relationship I could just walk out as I was really in love with Wole. Fine I accepted and by the time I was heading for my youth service I discovered I was pregnant again. He had secured a job as at this time and I must say he was doing well, plus he came from a wealthy home. 

I called Wole to inform him we needed to talk and it was urgent and very important, he told me he was about calling me too for an important issue. I was happy because it seems everything was working out as planned. We meet 2 days after and what he told me, oh god, I almost died right there! That he was getting married to a lady he met at camp and she was pregnant for him. I was mad, sad and frustrated, so what happens to me with the pregnancy. He told me I could keep it or abort it, he wasn’t interested. Slowly I walked away and never called or contacted him again, the next day I aborted the pregnancy.

I moved on, but learnt my lessons the hard way. Last year I met a good man who wants me for me because I told him everything about me. He didn’t mind all that happened in my past, he proposed last month and I accepted. It was a very romantic dinner with his families and friends and a few of my friends too and brothers as it was his birthday. I couldn’t believe my eyes when he introduced me to Wole as his cousin. I was so angry but tried my best to hide my feeling. Wole pretended never to have met me, so I played alone.

Early this month Wole called me, he wanted to see me, that it was very important because it had to do with Ayomide my fiancé. We fixed an appointment for the next day only for him to tell me I have to sleep with him or he will tell Ayomide I was dating him back then in school and had had over 7 abortions (big lie) for him which means I cant have a child anymore. I couldn’t believe what I heard, how can he be this wicked I asked him. So after all the hurts he still wants to destroy my finally joy. I asked him why he would want to cheat on his wife, he told me boldly that his wife knew he doesn’t eat one soup and have no issue if he slept with her sister. Wole gave me 3 weeks to think about it before our introduction coming February 2016.

Right now am shattered, am confused, what do I do? Ayomide doesn’t know its Wole who I did the abortions for. After I discovered they are cousins I cant even tell him he’s the one because Ayo loves him like a brother. Please tell me what to do! He calls 3 times and sends messages everyday to remind me of the weeks.