Wednesday, 4 November 2015

HE SHOWED UP 9 YEARS AFTER!

Dear TOLD Readers, He showed up 9 years after he abandoned her! What does he want? Read full story below. Remember this is a True Life Stories from our counseling Sessions with hundreds of people weekly, via One on One, Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, Email etc, stories we share here are with their permission. The only thing we change is the person's real name and address.

We will be bringing some feedbacks from our previous sessions.
They say time heals, yes indeed it does, but what do you do when fully healed your past suddenly pops up bringing back the hurtful memories. My name is Sandra am 27 years old, a marketer, from Imo state.

I have a son who will be 9 years by next month, I had him when I was a teenager. It wasn't easy but I had no choice as my parents were aware of the pregnancy and never wanted me to abort it. Despite the fact that the guy denied it. Ugo told me he wasn't interested in the pregnancy as he wasn't ready to be a father at 21. He told me his future was more important than a dumb girl as me who thinks I could hook him with pregnancy.

My parents visited his parents maybe the issue can be sorted out, but instead Ugo denied me right in front of his parents, told them he has never seem me in his life. And he was very sure I was a gold digger who wanted to reap where I didn't sow. I was shattered, I was sad and broken, I felt my world ending right there. His parents abused my parents of not giving me proper home training, they called me all sort of names and pushed us out of their home. Yes they were very rich and had all the luxury money could afford.

My parents were so wonderful and supportive during this times I was down, I still tried my best reaching Ugo and later heard his family sent him overseas to study. It's wasn't easy for me at all during this time. But with the help of my parents and sibling I scale through. When it was time for me to deliver, the doctors said my pelvic was too small to push so I have to do a CS. My parents didnt have such money, so they decided to visit Ugo's parents maybe they can help. That day was a terrible mistake as they asked their maid to pour water on my parents and throw them out. If they didn't know their class. 

My uncle came to my aid and provided half of the money as my parents borrowed the rest from their friends. Daniel was born and he was a blessing to us. We took him to visit his grand parents, they refused us in. Ugo was getting information concerning us as his friend told us he kept asking about us. But he didn't want anything to do with us. 6 years after I found him on facebook and sent a picture of Daniel to him. He reminded me he wasn't interested, if I've forgotten.

I finally decided to move on, it took me forever to move on, but I did only for him and his parents to show up in my house begging for forgiveness, claiming he was young and didn't know what he was doing. They have been to our house more than 10 times since he returned from overseas September. 

He wants to marry me, his parents are sincerely sorry according to them. He has repented and wants to be with me and his son. How do I accept this man after everything I went through. I loved him, but am not sure I want him now! Now am hurting again, seeing him beg I feel he doesn't deserve me at all. What do I do Please? 




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