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My name is Diana, am 30 years old, run my own business (Into event planning) live in Igando. Am a little confuse about this friend on mine who suddenly appeared four years after setting me up.
I met Linda in event planning school and we got close because she was exceptional, very intelligent and was ever ready to help. after 3 months we moved into the same room so we could work together. We did almost everything together. I wasn't dating anyone as at then because I wasn't ready, but her aim was to hook me up. So we had lots of date with potential guys.
on this special occasion where everything got sore, we just got back from a job and it was pretty late so we headed to my home on getting home she got a call from her boyfriend who was expecting us that night, because it was his birthday. I was too weak to go out that night but she begged me, she didn't want to go alone and we will take a cab there. I felt relieved since I wasn't going to enter a bus. So we set out, when we got there truly the party was on. Then she introduced me to Madu the younger brother of her boyfirend and we got talking.
He gave me a glass of wine and we got talking, then I felt dizzy and he told me I could sleep in his room. I didn't just understand myself that day because that wasn't the first time I drank wine, but I know I wasn't just okay. Before I could say jack I was terribly weak that I couldn't lift my head nor my hand. Then the surprise came strolling in, my friend's boyfriend slept with me, his friend slept with me, their cousin slept with me. I knew everything that was happening but couldn't defend myself. Then the younger one who offered me the wine came in it was his turn, he couldn't do it he was weak and started crying.
He helped me with a glass of milk and cleaned me up. early hours of the morning he was by my side begging for forgiveness, he said he couldn't do it because I was nice to him and he fell in love with me. He told me he couldn't stop his brothers and friend because they paid for it. I was shocked, paid to who? My friend Linda he answered, but why, he said Linda told them she had a friend who was too Pretty and was always attracting attention and she felt I was snubbing all the guy she hooked me up with. She wanted to teach me a lesson. I felt so sad and couldn't stop crying, I wasn't a virgin but how could she do such a thing to me after all the trust from my family and myself. She was having breakfast when I got up, I was so mad that I slapped her so hard, I asked her why she did it she couldn't say anything but kept saying she was SORRY!
I picked my bag and left the house, her boyfriend's younger brother drove me home and still begged me to forgive him for not helping me. That was the end of that friendship, I deleted all her contacts from my phone and warned her never to visit my house again. Three years later I and Madu met at the airport and he asked me out, am still not comfortable dating him because of what happened. A year after I met Madu, Linda resurfaced from nowhere asking for forgiveness. Playing the born again girl. Madu has promised to wait till am ready, his elder brother who raped me begged me and his wife also begged me for what happened.
Am so confused I don't know what to do next, Do I give Madu a chance?
What do I do with Linda?
PLEASE HELP ME!
I met Linda in event planning school and we got close because she was exceptional, very intelligent and was ever ready to help. after 3 months we moved into the same room so we could work together. We did almost everything together. I wasn't dating anyone as at then because I wasn't ready, but her aim was to hook me up. So we had lots of date with potential guys.
on this special occasion where everything got sore, we just got back from a job and it was pretty late so we headed to my home on getting home she got a call from her boyfriend who was expecting us that night, because it was his birthday. I was too weak to go out that night but she begged me, she didn't want to go alone and we will take a cab there. I felt relieved since I wasn't going to enter a bus. So we set out, when we got there truly the party was on. Then she introduced me to Madu the younger brother of her boyfirend and we got talking.
He gave me a glass of wine and we got talking, then I felt dizzy and he told me I could sleep in his room. I didn't just understand myself that day because that wasn't the first time I drank wine, but I know I wasn't just okay. Before I could say jack I was terribly weak that I couldn't lift my head nor my hand. Then the surprise came strolling in, my friend's boyfriend slept with me, his friend slept with me, their cousin slept with me. I knew everything that was happening but couldn't defend myself. Then the younger one who offered me the wine came in it was his turn, he couldn't do it he was weak and started crying.
He helped me with a glass of milk and cleaned me up. early hours of the morning he was by my side begging for forgiveness, he said he couldn't do it because I was nice to him and he fell in love with me. He told me he couldn't stop his brothers and friend because they paid for it. I was shocked, paid to who? My friend Linda he answered, but why, he said Linda told them she had a friend who was too Pretty and was always attracting attention and she felt I was snubbing all the guy she hooked me up with. She wanted to teach me a lesson. I felt so sad and couldn't stop crying, I wasn't a virgin but how could she do such a thing to me after all the trust from my family and myself. She was having breakfast when I got up, I was so mad that I slapped her so hard, I asked her why she did it she couldn't say anything but kept saying she was SORRY!
I picked my bag and left the house, her boyfriend's younger brother drove me home and still begged me to forgive him for not helping me. That was the end of that friendship, I deleted all her contacts from my phone and warned her never to visit my house again. Three years later I and Madu met at the airport and he asked me out, am still not comfortable dating him because of what happened. A year after I met Madu, Linda resurfaced from nowhere asking for forgiveness. Playing the born again girl. Madu has promised to wait till am ready, his elder brother who raped me begged me and his wife also begged me for what happened.
Am so confused I don't know what to do next, Do I give Madu a chance?
What do I do with Linda?
PLEASE HELP ME!
If u really love madu pls try to go for him. As for ur friend linda, forgive her but don't ever have anything to do with her even if she claims to be born again. Even madu brother and d rest that raped u, forgive them but don't ever have anything to do with them. Finally try to move on. D lord is your strength dear.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm serious issue..she need to consider madu,i thought she need to forgive her bt never be a friend again,
ReplyDeletePlease Diana fine a place in your heart to forgive them do is hard to forget and as for madu give him chance cox he really want you that is why after year both of you site meet again
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