My name is Stanley am 35 years old, a marketer, based in Lagos. I hope I wouldn't be making a great mistake if I give in to this oh! Am really confused why will my wife ask for such a thing. Am sorry doc, let me go straight to the point.
I meet Busola 2 years ago but we started dating 10 months ago, planning our White wedding for September. She is homely, kind, caring, loving and everything a guy will want in a wife. But right now am confused she was pretending all this while.
For the past 2 months Busola has been asking for a threesome, at first I thought she was joking. But she kept asking saying she's use to making out with 2 guys at the same time and she wouldn't mind if the second guy is my friend. Or if I chose the person. we have talked about this several times, but she insist she is not changing her mind.
How do I make love to my wife and someone else will do same. I have never being in such situation even when I wasn't ready for marriage. We did our introduction/Traditional marriage before she started all this talk about threesome. And I promised I will not sleep with her till our wedding night and I have kept my promise.
But she is driving me crazy with this kind of talk. There was even a time she brought an old friend of hers to my place begging me to give it a try. How do I handle this kind of issue, I cant tell her parents nor my parents. I have begged her to see you, but she's proving stubborn.
What do I do now because traditionally she is my wife as I have paid her bride price only the white wedding remaining which we shifted because she lost her elder brother. Please help me! Please! Is my wife possessed? She has completely change form the person I met.
This serious the best bet for you, since she insists changing her mind is no option then i thought u should leave her and let her go. how will u feel leaving your home broken your life is insecure sorry to say Mr dan av always being saying this: you need to let out go your emotion in taking some decision though its not easy but i believe thats is the best for you. so bro think twice. Children is not involve yet i believe quit is the best option.
ReplyDeleteThis serious the best bet for you, since she insists changing her mind is no option then i thought u should leave her and let her go. how will u feel leaving your home broken your life is insecure sorry to say Mr dan av always being saying this: you need to let out go your emotion in taking some decision though its not easy but i believe thats is the best for you. so bro think twice. Children is not involve yet i believe quit is the best option.
ReplyDeleteFirst, you need to weigh your own scruples. Put aside the fact that she is your 'wife' and think about the act...is it right by any moral standard? Can/should you condone it?
ReplyDeleteIf you would not give in and do what she wants, it is better you don't form a union with her. Talk to her again with the aim of reaching a resolution. If she insists, you will have to take a stand. You can definitely find a way to part amicably without making the threesome talk a family issue.
this is serious issue,,in dis situation i thought u shuld stay. away from her,since she refuse to change her mind.my brother pls be prayerful at dis point..
ReplyDeleteWhy dont you try telling her u will expose the issue to the church pastor if ur a xtian, or the cleric if otherwise and see what she will do bcos its actually a devilish act, threesome ke, kilonjebee.
ReplyDeleteNa wah o, may God help us in ds world.