AM CONFUSED! SHOULD I TELL MY MUM WHAT I SAW?

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My name is Benita, am 19 years old, I live in Lekki with my parents and they are very rich. Which means we are very comfortable. We have over 5 domestic staffs and they all live with us. I have an Older brother and sister they are both married. So am the only child with my parents. My dad is 60 years and my Mum is 59

My mum is a very busy woman same as my dad that they hardly have time together. They both travel for business outside Nigeria 70% of the time, the only thing is they don't travel same time, so one person can be around for us. The other 30% is when we all go on vacation. I feel my mum is giving too much to keep our family together, but my dad is giving too little.

Ok let me tell you the reason I said this, it is because on 4 occasions I caught my dad sleeping with our maids, when she travelled out for business. I was home early the first day I caught them, they didn't know I was home, the gate man was sleeping, three maids have gone to the boutiques as usual. The cook has gone to the market, only the cleaner was at home and it was her I first saw with my dad. I made sure they saw me too. But my dad pleaded with me not to tell my mum. I accepted because he promised to stop. 

But he has not changed since the first time I caught him, I have even caught him with three others of our maids and he keeps begging me not to tell my mum because he loves her and doesn't want to lose her. And that he doesn't want to stress my mum with sex. This happened over a period of 8 months, when I deferred a year in school because of some medication condition I have. So I can travel out for treatment.

Am so sad and worried for my mum because she does everything for my dad and us. I love them both and don't want to destroy our family because they are always happy whenever I see both of them.

Am Confused, Please advice me, should I tell my mum or report him to an uncle.

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