ELEVEN QUALITIES YOU MUST POSSESS (Part Two)

ELEVEN QUALITIES YOU MUST POSSESS

QUESTIONS: Do You Or Your Partner Have The Following Qualities In Your Relationship?

You must understand that, for you to have a successful relationship/ courtship that will eventually lead to a great marriage, you must be FRIENDS, COMMUNICATE rightly, let your INTEGRITY speak for you, show how COMMITTED and CREATIVE you are in taking the relationship to it next level, are your SENSE OF HUMOR enough for him/her to rush back just to be with you? Are you PATIENCE enough to understand what he/she need and wants at a particular time and always? Do you know your LOVE LANGUAGES this is one important part people miss, are you bold enough to ask that particular QUESTION that bugs your mind not afraid it will hurt him/her or end the relationship which will eventually end, are you RELIABLE  and CAPABLE of being in charge when he/she is not around and finally are you ready to COLLABORATE with him/her to build a home that will be an example for others who will want to take that same road you took or thinking of taking, are you ready to be with him/her till death separates you. 

In Part one we talked about 1 - 5

1. Friendship

2. Communication

3. Integrity 

4. Commitment and

5. Creativity

6. Sense of Humor
Am sure you know laughter is the best medicine to a tensed mind. So keep that smiles and jokes rolling in to make your relationship fun filled. Laughter is healing, healthy and fun!

7. Patience
Patience comes easily to those who are committed. When one is committed, one is steadfast in their relationship nothing gets in the way of their commitment to their relationship, like I said earlier this can only be possible when you have defined that relationship. Obstacles are stepping-stones en route to fulfillment of the relationship. Never take your eyes off the where you are both heading. Patience unlocks many silences questions.

8. Know Your Love Language
Language is the conduit for self-expression. You can make little progress in that relationship without words, but you can’t make an expression without knowing the other’s love language. Love Language is the primary connection with yourselves.

9. The Power of Questions 
Questions open communication; statements don't. so you must be bold to ask that question bugging your mind not afraid it will hurt him/her or end the relationship which will eventually end. Questions likes: Where is this friendship/relationship heading to one very and first question you must ask before you get committed?

10. Reliability/capability
When you give your word, you create an expectation for others. When we deliver, others consider us reliable ­ our word carries weight and means something. Reliability is keeping your word, time and time again, No should be No and Yes should be Yes. You should be capable of handling issues without quarrel or fight. Can he/she leave you in charge when he/she is not around? Can you handle his/her money, love, friendship, trust, home etc without he/she regretting over his/her decision to let you be in charge.

11. Collaboration
Collaboration is at its essence, contribution. It's what happens when we "step outside of ourselves" and honor the space we share more than where we each individually come from. Collaboration is what we create when we come together. Are you ready to collaborate with him/her to build a home that will be an example for others who will want to take that same road you took or thinking of taking, are you ready to be with him/her till death separates you?

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