ELEVEN QUALITIES YOU MUST POSSESS (Part One)

ELEVEN QUALITIES YOU MUST POSSESS (Part One)

QUESTIONS: Do You Or Your Partner Have The Following Qualities In Your Relationship?

You must understand that, for you to have a successful relationship/courtship that will eventually lead to a great marriage, you must be FRIENDS, COMMUNICATE rightly and often, let your INTEGRITY speak for you, show how COMMITTED and CREATIVE you are in taking the relationship to it next level, are your SENSE OF HUMOR enough for him/her to rush back just to be with you? Are you PATIENCE enough to understand what he/she need and wants at a particular time and always? Do you know your LOVE LANGUAGES? This is one important part people miss, are you bold enough to ask that particular QUESTION that bugs your mind, not afraid it will hurt him/her or end the relationship which will eventually end, are you RELIABLE  and CAPABLE of being in charge when he/she is not around and finally are you ready to COLLABORATE with him/her to build a home that will be an example for others who will want to take that same road you took or thinking of taking, are you ready to be with him/her till death separates you.

1. Friendship

Every relationship must be built on friendship before marriage, because as friends it will be very easy to be in each other’s shoes. Now this is the first thing to consider before you think of taking it to the next question. Are you friends with him/her or the relationship just kicked off without a proper foundation?

2. Communication:

You must be able to communicate with easy to your partner, without quarrel or fight, this is where a lot of people fail, “you say, but I told you we are just friends, really, just friends and your both having sex like there is no tomorrow, how well did you communicate that message. You should define that relationship in a clear and plain way that he/she will understand. Communication is very vital in any relationship.  

3. Integrity

Integrity is foundational and sets the parameters for the success of a relationship. A relationship or person can't be truly successful without integrity. Align your actions with your values for a high level of fulfillment in that relationship.

4. CommitmentTo have a successful relationship/courtship both partner MUST be committed to see it succeed. Any outstanding relationship has both partner stands behind and for each other; you have to put aside the differences for the common good of your relationship. Commitment is not for players or boys/girls but for mature boy/girls and men/women who are ready to take their relationship to the next level. Don’t expect commitment when you have not defined where both of you are heading to. 

5. Creativity
Are you thinking outside the box, thinking of how you can contribute to your relationship creatively and prosperously. Thinking of how to transform and solve problem without getting too many people involved. Nurture your creative instincts and don't be afraid to share what you think might be unconventional ideas. Change would never occur if we don’t think outside the box, especially when we do the same thing every time and there’s no change. 

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