Dear TOLD
Readers (The Only Love Doctor's Readers), this story is one touching story, she
insisted we had a one on one session so we believe. Life throws a
lot at us, but how we receive it is key to out happiness. My heart was so heavy
while doing the transcript. We have decided to divide the story into 2 parts
because it very lengthy. She permitted we could edit to make it only 2 parts.
So here’s the second part. Remember whatever story you read on
this blog are True Life Stories. from our counselling Sessions with hundreds of
people weekly, via One on One, Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, Email etc. so we
hear and see these stories. The only thing we change is the person's real name
and address. Continue to read her story.
For the first
time in my life I came face to face with death, the only thing I kept saying
was Lord save me and I will never do this again. I bled and bled and bled that
I passed out, in a bid to save my life the doctor had to remove my womb to stop
the bleeding. Two days after I could feel myself and could talk a little. I
asked the doctor where Frank was, he gave me a note he dropped:
"AM
SORRY I CAN'T BE WITH YOU ANYMORE, MY WIFE AND KIDS NEEDS ME MORE" EVEN I
HAD THE PLANS TO MARRY YOU, YOU HAVE NO WOMB ANYMORE, WHERE IS YOUR WOMANHOOD?
MAY GOD PROVIDE YOU WITH A MAN WHO WILL WANT NO CHILD AS A BLESSING” WILL
ALWAYS LOVE YOU”.
FRANK.
That note
changed my life completely, I was stronger, wiser and repentant. I gave my life
to Christ and joined the Evangelical Team of the church and I was solely
winning the prostitute over to Christ with my story. All I wanted was to find
peace and give my all to serve God. I started a small business and registered
for Jamb which I wasn’t successful in. I decided to enroll in a fashion school
and I came out the best. I have a fashion house training over 15 young people
quarterly.
5 years after the youth president of the
church asked me out, I told him I wasn't his type as my life wasn't a pleasant
one to hear. He insisted and kept coming, 7 months after I accepted to date
him.
My biggest
problem now is Do I tell him my past or Do I just let it be as it has been? Or
walk away? This is my story and life.
Did you read the Part One?
Your Past is Your past. If you feel like he really loves you tell him. His reaction would determine weather you should go ahead or not. My own life is even worse than yours.
ReplyDeletePls just go ahead and tell him, if he'd stay he will. This issue is too delicate to be swept unda d carpet. The earlier he knows the better for u two!!
ReplyDeletePlease do tell him, if he's truly your husband God will touch his heart to accept u d way u are. And then u both continue in prayer, there is nothing impossible with God.. He replace d un repairable... say the truth now to avoid later regrets
ReplyDeleteThis Issue is very serious, and should be treated with caution. There's nothing too serious not to tell your future husband no matter the gravity. Please tell him the whole truth, or someone will help you tell him.
ReplyDelete:Let me shock you Kate, Mine was worse and I told my husband the whole truth he told me kids wasn't the reason for marriage, he will take me as I am. To God be the glory We have 2 kids now and I never knew I was pregnant for 6 months during my first pregnancy. God heals.
ReplyDeletemy advice to kate, is that she should tell him everything about her past to him. If she continue telling him she isn't interested. He would stop disturbing her. And if she go ahead and marry him without telling him, there would also be another problem. Telling him about her past will also allow her to know if the guy truly love her or after her body. After telling him if he insist for they to get married. She should go ahead. For it is written with God all things her possible. There is nothing God cannot do.
ReplyDeleteMy glorious sister, the truth been told you may loss him when you tell him, but I assure you before you tell two to three interested men,one of them will certainly accept your past, present even your future. So fear not to tell the true, for if you do, you will have children without troubling or running up and down for it. "2 Corinthians 5:17
ReplyDeleteTherefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new". including a new womb.