DAMILOLA'S GREATEST MISTAKE!

Dear TOLD Readers (The Only Love Doctor's Readers), Sometimes we take our pastor more serious than God's word. Is it the Pastor, Dami, her mum or her mum's friend at fault here, abi nah Jazz. Well, no idea but Remember whatever story you read on this blog are True Life Stories. from our counseling Sessions with hundreds of people weekly, via One on One, Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, Email etc. so we hear and see these stories. The only thing we change is the person's real name and address. Continue to read her story.

My name is Damilola, from Ogun State I will be 38 years next month, am a dentist, and have my own dental clinic, I reside in Lagos State. I came across your blog through your recent post on facebook and I thought I should share my bundle with you. You are a blessing to our generation I must confess and I wished I met you guys before now.

It all started 3 years ago when I turned 35 and my parents were so worried I was yet to be married. My mummy visited every mountain she could and did all manner of prayers she could for me to get marry. Until one day she came across a pastor who told her exactly what I should do.

I wasn’t really bothered about marriage because I felt I needed to do it with the right person, and not because everyone is worried for me. Just to please my mummy I followed her to see the pastor after all the troubles from her. I didn’t like this pastor when I met him because I felt there was something not right about him. But my mum insisted he was the best and the right man to pray for me. Ok! I agreed and he gave me some prayer points and gave me 7 days dry fasting and told me on the 5^th day I will meet a guy who will instantly propose on our first meeting. But that wasn’t the man for me, on the 6^th and 7^th day another man will propose, that is my husband.

I didn’t believe him at all because I still felt uncomfortable with him, but my mum kept insisting. 2 days after the meeting with the pastor, I started the prayer and fasting. Just as he told us a guy proposed to me on the 5^th day of the prayer and fasting and on the 6^th and 7^th day Kunle proposed to me (now my husband). That was when I believed him and that turned out to be my worse nightmare right now. Few days after the proposal the pastor called to ask how far, I told him how everything went and he said he wanted to meet the guy. I didn’t have Kunle’s contact because I didn’t collect it and he didn’t collect mine too.

The pastor told me not to worry that the next day Kunle will locate me then I can inform him about my pastor, and if he wanted to marry me he must meet my pastor.  The next day Kunle appeared at my office to wash his teeth. I was wow about the whole revelation, we got talking like old friends and I told him about the pastor. He didn’t object and gladly accepted. 2 weeks after we were on our way to see pastor Martins. He prayed for us and advised we got married in 3 months so God’s plan will not reverse. My mum was the happiest and the preparation started. My family took care of everything and the wedding was the most lavished wedding of all time in our family.

The real marriage mistake started 2 months after our wedding, my husband Kunle I didn’t understand anymore. He started selling my landed property in the name of investment, He beats me up at any chance he had, called me names, brought different women home and slept with them on our bed. I was shattered, I called pastor Martins and informed him all that was happening. He told me it was my cross I should carry it alone. That I should have watched and prayed before leaping. I felt betrayed and terrible, I called my mum, she called her friend who introduced her to the pastor. To cut the long story short, everything was a set up. Kunle was arranged for me not knowing who he was, the pastor was a fake and my mum’s friend desperately wanted money to offset her debt. And I was the only one available for the punishment, for a crime I didn’t commit. Its 2 years plus now nothing has changed in this man and everyday is a nightmare for me with him. Pastor Martins was actually my husband’s friend, my mum was deceived by her friend all because of money. I fell for their scam and now am stock with this man, I pray everyday for him because I don’t want a divorce, am 2 months pregnant now and am yet to inform my husband. Am so scared of him that I lock myself inside anytime he manages to come home. Please help me!