HE LEFT 4 YEARS AGO, NOW HE IS ASKING FOR...

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Hello sir, My name is Bimbo from Akute, Lagos I have been trying to send you a mail but i could not get through please sir, can I share my story through here (On Whatsapp).

my call went through twice last week on your midnight show but was not picked and i have been trying again i am 33 years old self employed and a single mother its about the father of my son. we met 6 years ago but we court for 2 years before i got pregnant.during the 2 years of courtship,he was working in Port Harcourt while i work in Ogun state. So because of the distance, we plan working on our transfer back to Lagos so we can both plan our wedding and settle down.

His was successful 5 months before mine. during that period of 5 month, I never knew he has impregnated another lady and neither his parent nor his younger sister (my colleague at work) told me about it.

When i came back to Lagos, we started planning our wedding. We got our apartment. So after some weeks i notice i was pregnant too. i was so happy because it will make the plans faster (den he was 37 and i was 29).

Since i knew nothing about the other lady's pregnancy, i never knew he has been having issues with the parent. they have already asked him to dismiss me but he said no. so one day we were together and something told me to check his phone which i have never done since we met. that was how i saw the lady's message telling him he never come to see neither her nor his daughter. then d baby was two months old while i was two pregnant things get so hard that the parent had to force him marry the other lady since the lady was their family friend's daughter to cut the whole story short. 

Now......surprisingly, he just showed up 3 weeks ago uninformed but i wasn't around. i left my son with my younger sister.

MY FEAR NOW IS....

He came with his uncle but my sister said they said nothing because i wasn't around and they did not meet my parents too, so they left.

so now.....the last time he saw me my son was when my son was 3 months old, now he is 4 years old. he never call. and none of his family did. thinking may be he is coming back to take my son away from me.... that is all i want share.....

He has not even taking any responsibility since i have the boy, though my parents are on my side, on whatever decision i take. would love to hear people's comment, I want to be prepared before he comes back because he is coming back to see us. Thank you so much.