Wednesday, 15 July 2015

MY PAST CAME CALLING! WHAT DO I DO?

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Your Past can be Your Future Enemy if not well Sorted #TeamDiamond

My whole world is crashing all because of my silly mistakes in the past. My name is Tomi, am 28 years old, work with one of the leading Telecommunication firm as an accountant. Based in Lagos.

when I was in school, I met some group of girls who told me life wasn't fun without hanging out with the big boys. I was 19 and still a virgin. Few months after I found myself longing for those things I saw them wear, eat and lived with. I felt why should I not enjoy myself now after-all am not married yet.

After proper orientation from my new friends, I joined them and I started making money from sleeping with all manner of men with condom as I was taught never to sleep with any man without one. My life totally changed and my new life seems beautiful as I always wanted, because I had money. After school I decided to end that life and move as I really wanted to settle down.

Because I had many suitors knocking, But each time I confided in a man about my past he never came back. So I decided to keep my past life to myself. Then I met this charming man who looked like he never cared about my past after I told him. I was blessed and so happy I have finally found him.

8 months after we met, we picked a date for our wedding, His parents are not based in Nigeria so they will fly down for the wedding. His mum came in earlier and she loved me, his dad couldn't come in the morning we were to take our oath in court for the white wedding (am catholic). He came in after the oath taking and we headed home to met him, only to find his father as one of the men I slept with, not just him plus his friend. He was very sure he knew me, even when I denied, so he asked his son to excuse us. He told me I couldn't Marry his son because we had a thing in the past. And gave me 3 weeks to decide, this is the 6th day Am totally confused and don't know what to do. Please help me, am 4 months pregnant for my husband to be.





3 comments:

  1. Dat is a serious issue but to me I'll say...don't give up if u feel u can go on,,don't say u don't love a person anymore if u can't let go....

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  2. seriously, never give up,,since u ave got pregnant for him,,i thought u shuld tel d man dat it was den,,,and alsp be prayerful at dis point...

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  3. you tell the man..old things av pass away new thing has began.....now u are pregnant,,,,,tell the father that u are born again....and u have put that bad habbit aside .......if u love ur husband ooo dont leave him......so be it..dear......be prayerful....

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