Hello Sir, my name is Mrs. Ukah, I lost my husband five years ago and am blessed with a son and a daughter. Am 45 years old got married when I was 27. Am presently at P.H, but I and my kids are based in Ghana.
We came to Nigeria 3 months ago for my husband's remembrance service, his family insisted we held it in Nigeria. My daughter is 16 years and my son 13. Am a business Woman and comfortable.
As I write this, am shocked and feeling terrible, asking myself why I came to Nigeria in the first place. Let me not bore you, I will go straight to the point.
I notice some changes in my daughter and for the fact that she kept her distance from me. I was worried and I asked her what was the matter, she said nothing was wrong for a week she kept saying nothing was wrong. So I decided to monitor her movement and noticed anytime her phone rang she ran to the toilet or kitchen or somewhere I wouldn't hear her conversation.
I was forced to check her phone, what I saw left me death. She and her uncle have booked a date to terminate the pregnancy and she threaten him she was going to tell me, but he kept begging her nothing will happen to her. My 16 year old daughter is pregnant for my husband's younger brother (he's my age mate). I don't know how it happened neither do I know why he did it.
I confronted my daughter and she confessed he slept with her in the name of keeping the family bond, when they went to spend few days with his family. I was so mad I went to his house to confront him, he claimed he was drank and didn't know what he was doing. (His wife is not aware of this)
Am so confused right now as i write this and I wouldn't want to sin against God and wouldn't want my daughter carry this stigma. That's why I contacted you. Please help So I wouldn't make a life time damage to my family.
God Bless you and your family.
Wow, dats serious ooo. D woman should let her daughter carry d baby but the man should be arrested for child molestation. And his wife should be informed about what her husband did. This woman and her children should relocate back to Ghana n never have anything to do with her dead husband's brother.
ReplyDeleteWhat family name is he talking about. This is called statutory. Rape and it should be reported to the nearest authorities'. Rape victims. Are not. Stigmatized. Anymore biko
ReplyDeleteAm speechless!!! This is serious, this is the worst true life story I have heard this year. The truth is u have to let her about that child. And u have to create a daughter and mother relationship. I think you broke bridges btw u and ur daughter. U are more committed to ur work! Ur children should see u as not just a mother but a true friend. And ask God for forgiveness kos abortion is d only option for now tku!!!!?
ReplyDeleteI think the law should take its course... The girl should as well learn to let go of the hurt. She shouldn't take offences so it wont blur her vision for a greater tomorrow. She should trust in God's Grace to help her let go and move on.
ReplyDeleteIt is very unfortunate, you should at least consult your pastor for advise on what to do in other to safe your daughter's life. furthermore, you should get your daughter a counselor so as to remove the stigma. Your husband's brother also should be made to face the law as a lesson to other men.
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