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Good morning sir, please i need counseling on this issue.
My name is Grace from Lagos. I am 24 years old. I am in a relationship with a guy who is 33 years old. When i met this guy i asked him of what he does for a living, he said he is a sailor and for now he is not on board.
We started dating and now our relationship is more than a year and six months but among the many problem is that he does not have a work let alone a job.
Now have beared with him all through this period without any changes. At 33, he still stays with His parents and he depends on them for feeding. I av pleaded wit him to at least get something doing for d main Time but he refuses telling me he does not want to do a small work. All he does is to sleep at home from morning till night.
During the one year and six months of dating him, have sacrifice a lot for him by taking up the bills, buying His under wears, staying in hunger whenever i visit him and above all i have done Two Abortions for him with my own money due to d fact that he is not working, he does not have a house and he does not have money. Sincerely, have passed through alot of embarrassment for him.
I know i may be stupid for going this far with a jobless man but he was d one that disvirgined me at the age of 23, that's why i decided to stick with him this far, but now am loosing my mind and i need counseling.
This guy claims to love me and i know i also love him that is why I have stick with him this far but no changes. And am confused.
Hmmmn...seriously serious
ReplyDeleteMy dear that guy just want to destroy your future, how on earth that he does not want to work you own your future please so do not let him defile it for you there are thousands of ladies that not the guy that disvagin them they stick up to
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ReplyDeleteTo wot u av said two abortion without no child,that is really, you have to let go,leave this man alone and continue your own life.
ReplyDeleteHis the one that disvirgin does not matter for you to suffer your self......time waits 4 nobody... Find your self a better person. Good luck
the fact dat u ar old doesn't mean u ar wise..may b he is d one disvirgtin or nt it doesn't ave anytin to do wit ur future...is better to run for ur life before he destroy ur future.
DeleteMy sister dont be deceived by the four letter word called LOVE, run as fast as u can from him. Pls open ur eye, love is no longer blind as in the time of old. The guy is a lazy, not a serious person, just a gold - digger. If you go ahead and marry him all in the name of disvigin when he is comfortable he will not take up his responsibilty as the head of the family but will still expect u to be spending ur money, am not saying u cant assit him but not taking up his responsibilty from now, because u ve made urself vulnerable to him to exploit all in the name of LOVE. Pls wise.
ReplyDeleteMy glorious sister you must RUN RUN RUN less he kill you and destroy your future . please lady is a man out there who deserve you.
ReplyDeleteMy glorious sister you must RUN RUN RUN less he kill you and destroy your future . please lady is a man out there who deserve you.
ReplyDeletemy dearest sister,,,this man ave Nutin to do,,,is better to find ur way,he wanted to destroy ur life.
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