15 YEARS INFIDELITY TOOK ME FROM GLORY TO GRASS!

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Below is a True Life Story (TLS) from someone well known by Team Diamond and 15 years of friendship. So sad we gonna share this here.

My name is Kome, from Delta State, am 53 years old, based in Lagos,married with two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, have my own business. I destroyed my success with my own hands. 

I had one of the best advertising agencies in Lagos because I was trained with one. And I got involved with modelling, radio/TV adverts, billboards etc. That was when I meet Mojisola. She came for one of the auditions we had for an advert. (Please pardon me because I wouldn't mention names of companies because am sure someone will definitely know it me).

I wasn't attracted to Moji for any reason because I am married (2 years old marriage as at then), and she wasn't attractive, beautiful of even my kind of woman. But she kept coming back after the audition with one excuse or another just to see me. Then one day she came to see me and I don't know how its all happened because the only thing or person I could think of was Moji and for 14 years I lived Moji's life.

my wife meant nothing to me anymore,I hardly looked at my wife, I stopped making love to my wife and concentrated only on Moji.  I rented an apartment for Moji and moved in with her. She was supportive in every area, (so I thought) because she really helped expand my business then. We traveled around the world on holidays. I even registered a business for her. I sponsored her sibling all through school and helped them get a good job.

I was turned into a houseboy in Moji's house because I had to drive, clean and do so many things for them at home, with all the money I had (I had paid stuffs of about 15). Moji took me that her mother told her am her husband that I should send my wife packing. She kept telling me my wife is a witch and so many bad things about my wife, which I believed. She talked me into changing all the properties to her name and my baby companies because she said she was a good manager.

Few years after I discovered my wife was having an affair with a younger man. That made me so mad that I stopped going home, I managed to go home only once a week because of my kids. 

My life story is too long if I have to say everything. But the truth is I left my family for this girl who totally destroyed me because I wasn't sensitive enough. Moji was just 19 when I meet her. It done on me last year, when She told me she was through with me and that she is dating a general and even pregnant for him. That the court marriage we had was a fake and all the pregnancies were fake too. I felt like my whole world has ended because I have abandoned families, friends and loved ones because I wanted to be with Mojisola. I refused to listened to anyone about her. I lost all my business and couldn't pay my stuffs for 3 months, I begged them to leave because I wasn't capable anymore.  I lost everything, I mean everything.

Its been a year now I Have not gotten any good company to advert for. Everywhere I summit a proposal they will accept but I wouldn't have the money to start executing the job. Then I loose automatically. I have tried selling my remaining properties so I could at least execute one job, no one is buying them. Am so frustrated and have lost all hopes.

Am back with my wife and kids, but can't forgive her for cheating on me because I felt it's a man's world. We have not made love since then. Am so unhappy that I feel God is still punishing me for my wasted years with Moji.

Note from Team Diamond: Now when we say this guy was rich believe us he was. At a point his friends looked up to him for everything including house rent and children school fees. Kome was one of the nicest guy who will sacrifice anything within his power to help someone. He's still that nice guy till date. But would you believe his friends are nowhere to be found. No one remembers his good deeds, they keep posting him. He keeps saying he doesn't know why we are still with him, because at a point we were a case on his neck about Moji. All we tell him is we are your true friends, we can't give you money but, at least we wouldn't abandon you because we pray and hope for you that one day you will be restored. by the way Ikana Daniel Akpata met Kome at one of his audition same one Moji attended, they have being friends since then.