This is a true life experience because we know the people involved.
My name is Madina, married to a "saint" liar and a serial cheater. I guess his holy life made me feel it was safe to marry him. We have 2 kids and our marriage is just 3 years old.
sometime last year I was forced to ask myself if I did the right thing by marrying him. I was pregnant with our second child when i discovered he lied to me about who he is, who he was and who he will be. My husband has series of women, married and single he sleeps with, too many evidence to show for his adulterous life, Text messages, Facebook chats, twitter message, he even has an account with a single status which he uses too. My husband is so bold to tell me he doesn't love them because his married.
What kind of a man will cheat on his wife and still be proud to threaten her that noone will believe her.
He promised he will change after the last time I caught him with an older woman and I threaten to leave him with our daughter and the pregnancy, he begged me not to tell anyone. But he didn't change after that, so I reported him to our Pastor, guess what! he denied everything and told the pastor that they were just friends.
Then, I remembered all the things he told me about his Exs, so many bad things. So I decided to contact one of them whom he talked about so much, how she left him for another man after everything he did for her blablabla (all lies).
She's married and her home is so blessed that I thank God for saving her from the man I called my husband now, so we got talking though it was difficult at first because I didn't know how she will react. She told me everything that happened, from catching him with her roommate to catching him with his goddaughters etc. I don't know why I total trusted this lady, maybe because I have caught my husband not once or twice in this act. She kept praying with me for my husband to change and encouraged me not to give up that he will surely change one day.
That day is yet to come oh! Am hurting so bad that I want to leave this marriage. The worse thing is he keeps telling me no one will believe me if I report him. This is because, he is too holy for anyone to suspect him as a cheat.
Please help am going insane, I don't want this to be my everyday headaches. I don't want him to tell the world on Facebook how he loves and cherish me, I don't want his gifts and money, I don't want his promises of change. I want the man he said he is. I want the God fearing man everyone thinks him to be, I want a faithful husband.
NOTE: We told Madina we will share her story here so people can help her. Please she needs help not discourage.
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In respect of modina..DAT man is a player no 10 precisly.. I don't think this man is ready to change..dats his game and I think he gets money from he's tricks..if madina stays or live the marriage Dis man has nothing to loose...madina just go check ur self if he's not contacted u with any form of disease..go and take care of ur children and forget abt that yahoo man.
ReplyDeletemy dear Medina, i wonder what u're still doing in that marriage, that man is an 'original fake' he is not a husband material at all! he is a pure player n that's his profession , i will advise u to run as fast as u can since ur heart tells u to move then, just do it! besides, marriage is meant to be enjoyed n not endured! a word, to the wise, is enough!
ReplyDeleteCheating every where. When will men respect their vows! Madina, its either you stay or you leave.
ReplyDeleteMadina Since u know what you want and u can't find it where you are you shud move out of d place to continue in the search
ReplyDeleteMadina, it's better u leave ASAP. if he can threaten u his wife the way he had, pls can u garantee he won't go ahead with his threat or even Put you in more greater risk? If u still want to stay I pray it wouldn't be the end of u.
ReplyDeleteMadina,for u to stay in dat relatioship is dangerous,he may b thinking of evil thing to do since u ave already caught him,my advice for u is to leave his house and move on wit ur life.
ReplyDeletemay God help our women in marriage these days and save our men so that there will be peace in our homes and country.
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