Different factors can predispose a relationship to enter into the conflict arena,the most important to be mindful of is the DIFFERENCE that exist between the sexes. The man is wired to think differently and perceive differently so is the woman. But one thing is the difference maker and thats how prepared both parties are for life and their relationship. Prior Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance! If the understanding of what they are into is there and there's a relationship and family constitution theres nothing that will come up in that relationship that cannot be sorted out ofcourse with the help of GOD and mentors because your marriage or relationship must have anchor somewhere when push comes to shove!
In a relationship if there are issues the attitude of "IGNORE IT AND IT WILL GO AWAY" will only make matters worse. In a healthy relationship,people must talk about the things that irritate them.They must seek to negotiate solutions which will respect their differences. Put your head in the sand,and your problems will get worse. Speak the truth in love and you can solve your problems. Don't change the subject when your spouse brings up a topic that you think will start an argument .Simply ask,"Do you want us to share our ideas and look for a solution? If so,I'm willing to talk.If we are simply going to argue,I don't have the energy to do that.If we can respect each other's thoughts I think we can find an answer" This is the way to build a healthy,thriving and sustainable relationship.
