INFIDELITY

I have posted this article on facebook before, but there is a need for it to be shared here again. I need to know reasons for INFIDELITY.

Sometimes I wonder “Why Did I Get Married” Reasons being I found that one man I will and could spend my whole life with, without looking back in regrets and rejections.

 It’s really surprises me when I hear of wives cheating on their husbands and husbands doing same and feels it’s their right to do so. Excuse me, where is it written that you can do that as a man or woman and still show your shameless or abi shameful face to talk when true men/women are talking.

While in the office few weeks ago, my colleague showed me a video of a woman committing adultery which was said to be recorded by her own husband. Which he went ahead to show to her family members in a meeting he called. But what did he gain doing that, nothing because she ended up committing suicide. Did he take his time to ASK WHY she did such a forbidden act, NO, all he wanted was to satisfy his ego, and what she wanted was to satisfy her sexual feeling, which I believe she wasn’t getting from her husband. This aspect of their life was not fully communicated to each other. Both were wrong in their way of handling their shortcomings, COMMUNICATION would have being the true solution here.

My Sweet husband will always say Communication in any relationship is the foundation of that relationship. U MUST TALK! Yes talk, ask for it if your not getting it in full, if your married you paid for it and was paid for, if your single abeg, stay away from it, because that’s a major road to HEARTBREAK.

Before I got married, we talked about all out weaknesses and strength and made sure we worked on them before and after marriage. We totally agreed that it was going to be SEX AFTER MARRIAGE, not sex before; we prayed about it and agreed on it. We never did until after our marriage blessing, this went a long way in helping us build our “FRIENDSHIP” than our “SEXSHIP”. 

I remember when I was very young I see lots of married men come look for my sisters and cousins; well I knew nothing then so all I knew was to collect my usual rounds of Biscuits and whatever gift they brought. But why did they cheat on their wives, that I can’t answer because I don’t know. But deep inside they should be good reasons for that, but whatever good reason IT’S STILL NOT A GOOD THING. Because marrying that person means your contented with what he/she has to offer you.

80% of people that call for counseling with my husband and I is all about he’s cheating, she’s a cheat, from married o, courting o or even boyfriends and girlfriends.

NOW my QUESTION for TODAY is WHY will you be WITH someone you know you will CHEAT on?

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